About Me

Coach · Abundance Trainer
Inner Game Specialist

Why I Do This Work

Most bios list credentials first. I’ll start with a story.

There’s an old experiment with fleas. Put one in a jar with the lid on, and it’ll jump and hit the lid, fall back down, and try again — over and over. What you should know about fleas is that they’re extraordinary jumpers. At a person’s scale, they could clear the Empire State Building. Escaping a jar should be effortless.

But the lid teaches them quickly. Take the lid off after twenty-four hours and the fleas keep jumping — only now they stop just shy of where the lid used to be. They live out the rest of their lives in that jar. And tragically, their offspring inherit the same invisible ceiling, and live and die inside it too.

Your upbringing, your formative experiences — there were so many moments when you hit the ceiling and it hurt. So you learned not to jump so high, not to dream so big, not to reach for more, not to stay connected, not to stay open to love, not to say yes to a bigger opportunity. I was just like one of those fleas.

I used to be really good at breaking through — and even better at breaking down afterward.

I’d hit a big revenue month, lead a packed retreat, or make a major creative leap… and then sabotage it. Blow up my schedule. Pick a fight. Overcommit. Withdraw.

I hadn’t yet seen the lid I kept hitting. It felt like I was doomed to live the same small life on a loop, falling back to the same levels of success, income, connection, and love.

Then one day, in a conversation with a powerful, insightful friend, I suddenly saw it. More importantly, I saw that the lid wasn’t actually there anymore — I was the one keeping myself down. I had an internal ceiling for how good I was allowed to feel and how much success I was allowed to have and enjoy.

That insight changed everything.

Realizing it didn’t have to be that way anymore scared the hell out of me — because it meant I could actually have everything I wanted, and more. I was scared, but I knew it would be worth it. So I committed to growing into a bigger life than I’d ever imagined for myself.

Now I spend every day solving the only problem you really need to worry about: the Upper Limit Problem — the quiet reason you ghost big opportunities, pick fights after wins, or overschedule the moment life gets good.

Every day I push the ceiling a little farther in my own capacity to enjoy my life, be successful, be loved — and more. When we work together, so will you.

What came out of that journey is the coaching method I now call The More Blueprint.

Peter Benjamin

About Peter

“I work with ambitious creatives & entrepreneurs who are already producing results — but keep bouncing against an invisible ceiling.”

Peter Benjamin, ACC has been coaching for fourteen years. He brings over a decade of experience across coaching, communication, and transformational work — with a career spanning more than 1,000 workshops and dozens of retreats devoted to helping people spark magic in their connections and create radical transformation in their lives.

Peter has trained professionals in 23 countries in coaching, facilitation, emotional intelligence, communication, conflict resolution, and the art of influence. He has given talks and workshops at Google, the Global Resilience Summit, the How Leaders Lead Conference, and the annual conference for the Canadian Society for Ecological Economists.

My Approach in One Sentence

I expand your capacity to not only create but enjoy an amazing life — in love, money, and purpose.

That means:

  • Data

    Feel-Good Capacity Test + a dashboard to track real shifts.

  • Depth

    Nervous-system tools, coaching drills, and habit rewiring.

  • Direction

    Concrete practices + calendar installs to make progress stick.

What Sets This Work Apart

I’m not just here to help you get the house, the deal, or the relationship.

I’m here to help you hold it all — without shrinking, self-sabotaging, or starting chaos when life gets too good.

Because when your body can finally tolerate success, love, rest, and power… they stop slipping through your fingers.

Most coaching skips the root. It chases goals. I build capacity.

Ready to Find Your Ceiling?

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